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Any toxic relationship takes a toll on emotional health. Therefore, it is important to be able to track this and defend your boundaries.
According to a 2005 study, unpredictable relationships with a person cause more stress and uncertainty than just negative ones.
In addition, ambivalent behavior can cause psychosomatic disorders. For example, high blood pressure.
Put yourself first. Don't settle for something you don't really want.
Tell yourself that you have a voice and can deny people anything.
Track your needs and desires. Appreciate your time and effort.
Use I-messages. For example, if you don't want to spend time with a person, don't tell them what their problems are. Instead, say: I have a lot to do and can't meet you today.