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Sometimes your friends aren't happy when you're successful: Psychologists explain
12.06.2023 05:20
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:25
Some people stay with you during the good times, others prefer that you stay at the lowest stage of your life.
Even if you're friends with someone, it doesn't always mean they'll be happy for you when you're successful.
Let's find out why.
Envy or jealousy
Your success may trigger feelings of envy or jealousy in some friends, who may compare themselves to you.
They may feel insecure about their own accomplishments or believe that your success diminishes their own achievements.
Fear of change or loss
Your success may bring about changes in your life, such as new opportunities, increased social status, or a shift in priorities.
Some friends may fear that these changes will alter your relationship dynamic or lead to a loss of connection.
Self-esteem issues
Friends who struggle with low self-esteem or self-worth may find it difficult to genuinely celebrate your success.
Competitiveness
They may view your success as a threat to their own aspirations or goals, resulting in a lack of happiness for your achievements.
Lack of empathy or perspective-taking
Some friends may struggle to put themselves in your shoes and fully appreciate the hard work, dedication, and sacrifices that led to your success.
This lack of perspective can make it challenging for them to genuinely share in your happiness.
