Expert Opinion: What Not to Do at a Dinner Party

30.05.2023 21:00
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:25

A dinner party requires certain rules before and after the event. In this article, we will talk about the main and common mistakes at dinner parties.

Let me know if you're not alone

Often people cook food only for a certain number of people.

Therefore, so that there are no surprises, warn the hosts in advance that you will not be alone.

Also, check if it will be possible to invite someone with you.

Perhaps the person will not be comfortable. For example, due to lack of furniture or utensils.

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Don't visit too early

The organizer has chosen a convenient time for which he will be ready.

Therefore, it is important to arrive exactly at the specified time, definitely not earlier.

If you're late, let people know ahead of time and apologize.

You may arrive up to 15 minutes late as the host will have more time to prepare and double check everything.

Take anything to a dinner party

It is impolite to come to visit with empty hands.

If you don't know what to bring, ask the host.

As universal gifts, you can choose candles, chocolate, a pack of tea or coffee, a bottle of wine, indoor or live plants.

However, it is worth finding out if a person is allergic to anything.

Be open

Say hello to all guests, get to know them better.

Ask open-ended but not too personal questions.

You can give a couple of harmless compliments. For example, musical taste, home interior or cooked dinner.

Here is a list of universal topics that can be discussed at a dinner party:

  • Hobbies
  • Pets
  • What they read, watch or listen to
  • One thing they are looking forward to next month

Whatever you do, remember that it is important not only to talk about yourself, but also to listen to the interlocutor. Conversations go both ways.

At the end of the evening, you can offer help to the owner of the house.

Diana Dashkevich Author: Diana Dashkevich Editor internet resource


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  1. Let me know if you're not alone
  2. Don't visit too early
  3. Take anything to a dinner party
  4. Be open