Why men prefer being friends with women they find attractive: Psychologists explain

07.06.2023 23:20
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:25

While every rule has some exceptions, most men still only choose to be friends with women they find physically attractive.

Their friendship may only be platonic, but the rule works more often than not.

Why does it happen?

Physical attraction

Physical attraction is a natural and instinctive aspect of human relationships. 

When men find women physically attractive, it can create initial interest or intrigue, which may motivate them to pursue a friendship.

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Aesthetics and social validation

Society often places value on physical attractiveness, and individuals may feel a sense of validation or social acceptance when they are seen with someone considered attractive. 

Befriending women they find attractive might be driven, in part, by the desire to enhance their own social image or self-esteem.

Emotional and social support

Men may seek friendships with women they find attractive because they believe these qualities can offer emotional and social support, as well as different perspectives and insights.

Potential for romantic involvement

In some cases, men may develop a friendship with a woman they find attractive with the hope or possibility of it evolving into a romantic relationship. 

They may see friendship as a way to build a connection and get to know the person better before exploring a potential romantic involvement.
 

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


Content
  1. Physical attraction
  2. Aesthetics and social validation
  3. Emotional and social support
  4. Potential for romantic involvement