Why people can be afraid of dating attractive individuals: Beauty that attracts but also repels

19.06.2023 11:20
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:25

People always notice beauty, and most individuals dream of dating someone really attractive.

But when someone attractive actually shows interest in them, lots of individuals back off, feeling insecure or confused.

Let's find out, why.

Insecurity

When someone perceives themselves as less attractive or doubts their own self-worth, they may feel intimidated by a highly attractive partner. 

They may fear not measuring up to their partner's standards, or worry that their partner will eventually leave them for someone more attractive.

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Self-doubt

Individuals may question why someone so attractive would be interested in them, leading to a fear of rejection or the belief that they are undeserving of the relationship.

Social comparison

People may worry about how they will be perceived by others and fear being judged or compared unfavorably to their partner. 

Insecurity about loyalty

Some individuals may worry that their attractive partner will attract attention from others, leading to concerns about infidelity or the fear of losing their partner to someone else. 

Pressure and expectations

There might be concerns about keeping up with their partner's attractiveness or feeling the need to constantly impress them, which can be stressful and anxiety-inducing.

Fear of rejection

People may worry that their partner's attractiveness gives them more options and that they could easily find someone better. 
 

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


Content
  1. Insecurity
  2. Self-doubt
  3. Social comparison
  4. Insecurity about loyalty
  5. Pressure and expectations
  6. Fear of rejection