Social, But Not Annoying: Psychologist's Tips

Good social skills can help you a lot in life - both in terms of professional growth and basic communication with peers and friends.

If you're not really social, then you can develop these skills, but it's important to find a good balance between being social and annoying.

Here are a few tips that can help you find it.

Listen actively

When engaging in conversation, pay attention to what others are saying and show genuine interest. 

Listen to their thoughts and feelings without interrupting or dominating the conversation.

Respect personal space

Be mindful of others' personal boundaries and personal space. Give people their own space and avoid invading it without their permission.

Be aware of social cues

Pay attention to non-verbal cues like body language and facial expressions. 

If someone seems disinterested or uncomfortable, it's a sign to adjust your behavior and give them space.

Practice empathy

Try to understand and relate to others' feelings and perspectives. Show empathy by being supportive, understanding, and considerate of their emotions.

Be inclusive

Include others in conversations and activities, making sure everyone feels welcomed and involved. Avoid excluding or alienating others unintentionally.

Be mindful of your volume

Speak at an appropriate volume, neither too loud nor too soft. 

Adjust your voice to match the social setting and respect the comfort of those around you.

Be positive and uplifting

Spread positivity, encouragement, and kindness in your interactions. 

Avoid excessive complaining, gossiping, or being overly critical, as it can be off-putting to others.

Respect differences of opinion

Accept that people have different perspectives and opinions. Engage in respectful discussions without belittling or forcing your views on others.

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• 24 December 2023

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