Stop comparing yourself to others: Psychologist's tips

06.11.2023 16:10
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:22

Nothing can damage your unstable self-esteem more than comparing yourself to others.

Stable people with healthy self-esteem simply enjoy who they are without thinking much about others' opinions, and you can do it too.

Here's how you can achieve that.

Focus on Your Journey

Understand that everyone has a different path in life. Concentrate on your own progress and goals.

Limit Social Media Use

Social media often showcases only the best moments in people's lives. Reduce your time on these platforms to avoid unrealistic comparisons.

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Be Kind to Yourself

Practice self-compassion. Treat yourself with the same kindness you'd offer a friend who's struggling.

Embrace Uniqueness

Remember that you are one-of-a-kind. Embrace your individuality and the qualities that make you special.

Unfollow or Mute

On social media, unfollow accounts that make you feel inadequate or use the mute feature to hide their posts temporarily.

Learn from Failures

Don't fear failure; see it as an opportunity to grow. Everyone faces setbacks on their journey.

Remember Your Values

Keep your values and beliefs at the forefront of your decisions. This will help you stay true to yourself.

Practice Empathy

Understand that others have their struggles and insecurities, just like you do. Be empathetic instead of judgmental.

Stay Busy

Keep yourself occupied with hobbies and activities you enjoy. This leaves less room for making comparisons.

Positive Role Models

Surround yourself with positive role models who inspire and uplift you.

Visualize Success

Imagine yourself achieving your goals and visualize the steps to get there.
 

Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource

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  1. Focus on Your Journey
  2. Limit Social Media Use
  3. Be Kind to Yourself
  4. Embrace Uniqueness
  5. Unfollow or Mute
  6. Learn from Failures
  7. Remember Your Values
  8. Practice Empathy
  9. Stay Busy
  10. Positive Role Models
  11. Visualize Success