Nothing can damage your unstable self-esteem more than comparing yourself to others.
Stable people with healthy self-esteem simply enjoy who they are without thinking much about others' opinions, and you can do it too.
Here's how you can achieve that.
Understand that everyone has a different path in life. Concentrate on your own progress and goals.
Social media often showcases only the best moments in people's lives. Reduce your time on these platforms to avoid unrealistic comparisons.
Practice self-compassion. Treat yourself with the same kindness you'd offer a friend who's struggling.
Remember that you are one-of-a-kind. Embrace your individuality and the qualities that make you special.
On social media, unfollow accounts that make you feel inadequate or use the mute feature to hide their posts temporarily.
Don't fear failure; see it as an opportunity to grow. Everyone faces setbacks on their journey.
Keep your values and beliefs at the forefront of your decisions. This will help you stay true to yourself.
Understand that others have their struggles and insecurities, just like you do. Be empathetic instead of judgmental.
Keep yourself occupied with hobbies and activities you enjoy. This leaves less room for making comparisons.
Surround yourself with positive role models who inspire and uplift you.
Imagine yourself achieving your goals and visualize the steps to get there.