Why it's hard to say what present you'd like to receive: Shy birthday people explained

Have you ever noticed that it's way easier for some people to give presents than to receive them?

And it might be even harder when someone directly asks you what present you want.

Let's find out, why.

Difficulty expressing desires

Some individuals may find it difficult to openly express their desires and preferences. 

They might feel uncomfortable or hesitant about directly asking for specific gifts, fearing that it may come across as demanding or selfish.

Fear of disappointment

People may hesitate to mention their desired gifts because they don't want to be disappointed if they don't receive them. 

Cultural or social norms

Certain cultural or social norms discourage individuals from explicitly stating their desires. 

Desire for surprise and thoughtfulness

Some people enjoy the anticipation and excitement of receiving something unexpected and cherish the sentiment behind the giver's choice.

Concern for others' feelings and budgets

Individuals may hesitate to express their desired gifts out of consideration for others' feelings and financial situations. 

Lack of self-awareness or clarity

Sometimes people may struggle to articulate what they truly want because they haven't spent enough time reflecting on their own needs and preferences. 

They may need more self-discovery and introspection to identify what would genuinely bring them joy.
 

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• 2 July 2023

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