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Why people are afraid to tell what they really want: Explanation of mind games
09.06.2023 12:30
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:25
Not everyone is open or brave enough to openly express their feelings, wants, or thoughts.
If you're talking to someone who seems too shy to tell what they really want, then there might be a few reasons for that.
Here are some of them.
Fear of Rejection or Judgment
People may worry that if they reveal their true desires, others might disagree, criticize, or disapprove of them.
Fear of Conflict
People may anticipate that their desires could clash with the desires or expectations of others, leading to tension or arguments.
Low Self-Confidence
Individuals with low self-confidence or self-esteem might doubt the validity of their wants or fear that their desires are not worthy or important enough.
Fear of Failure or Disappointment
They may worry that if they voice their wants and then fail to achieve them, it will lead to frustration, regret, or a sense of personal inadequacy.
Cultural or Social Conditioning
Some cultures or social environments may discourage assertiveness or prioritize collective needs over individual wants.
People may internalize these messages and hesitate to speak up about their personal desires.
Past Negative Experiences
If individuals have faced negative consequences in the past for being honest about their desires, they may develop a fear of repeating those experiences and choose to keep their wants concealed.
