Why people dislike boasters: Psychologists explain

Our society teaches us to be proud of our success and talents, but it also teaches us to stay humble about it.

Most people also dislike communicating with boasters, because they find them annoying instead of inspiring.

But why that happens?

Perceived Arrogance

When someone constantly boasts about their achievements, possessions, or abilities, it can come across as a lack of humility and a desire to assert superiority over others. 

Lack of Authenticity

People appreciate genuineness and honesty, and excessive boasting may be perceived as an attempt to exaggerate or manipulate the truth for personal gain or attention. 

Attention-Seeking Behavior

Some individuals may resort to excessive self-promotion as a way to boost their self-esteem or compensate for insecurities. 

However, this constant need for attention can be off-putting to others who perceive it as attention-seeking behavior.

Disruption of Social Dynamics

When someone consistently dominates conversations with self-praise, it can make others feel overshadowed or undervalued. 

Envy and Jealousy

When someone continuously highlights their accomplishments or possessions, it can trigger comparisons and feelings of inadequacy in those who perceive themselves as less successful. 

Lack of Empathy or Consideration

Boasters may not realize or may disregard how their behavior affects those around them, which can strain relationships and create tension.
 

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• 3 June 2023

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