Why people gossip: Psychologist's insights

Most people say they hate gossip - but they often take part in it as well, sometimes without even realizing it.

But why is that so contagious that people can't stop doing it, even if they disapprove of it that much?

Actually, there are a few reasons for that.

It's about sharing information

People gossip because it's a way for them to talk about other people, share interesting or juicy information, or feel more connected to others. 

Gossiping can make conversations more exciting or fill in gaps when there's not much else to talk about.

It makes people feel better about themselves

Sometimes, people gossip to feel better about themselves. 

When they hear about someone else's problems or mistakes, it can make them feel like they're not alone in facing challenges or that they're doing better in comparison.

It's still hurtful and potentially damaging

However, gossiping can also be hurtful and lead to misunderstandings or rumors that can harm people's feelings or reputations. 

So, it's important to be careful with gossip and try to use our words to build positive connections and understand one another better.

Conclusion

If you're not into gossiping, then you should stay away from it - so keep in mind what you're saying, because it can also be considered as gossiping.

And if you feel like someone is gossiping about you, try seeing it as their way of finding at least one interesting topic to discuss.
 

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• 27 September 2023

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