Promising people can end up terribly wrong: Psychologist's insights

24.09.2023 04:10
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:23

Some talented and smart people seem to have an amazing future, but mistakes happen - and that's why they end up terribly wrong.

While it doesn't happen too often, it's clearly more often than some people might think.

Here are a few reasons why people with great potential might not actually use it.

High Expectations

When someone shows a lot of promise, people expect a lot from them. 

It's like when you're the best player on a sports team; everyone expects you to do well every time.

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Pressure

The pressure to meet these high expectations can be overwhelming. It's like having a big weight on your shoulders. 

This pressure can make it harder to perform at your best.

Mistakes Happen

Nobody is perfect, and promising people can make mistakes or face challenges just like anyone else. 

But because people have high hopes for them, these mistakes can seem even more significant.

Lack of Support

Sometimes, promising individuals don't get the support they need. They may feel isolated or stressed, which can lead to problems.

High Standards

Promising people often set very high standards for themselves, which can be exhausting and lead to burnout.

Conclusion

Intelligence and talents often put lots of pressure on people's shoulders - and sometimes they break.

Therefore, it's always better not to push or judge people, even if you feel like they can do better - they might simply break.
 

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


Content
  1. High Expectations
  2. Pressure
  3. Mistakes Happen
  4. Lack of Support
  5. High Standards
  6. Conclusion