Savior Syndrome: When helping others becomes a bad thing

02.07.2023 05:20
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:24

Savior syndrome, also known as the Messiah complex or the rescuer complex, refers to a psychological pattern where individuals have an intense desire to save or fix others.

While it sounds like something good, it's often not - and that's why.

Let's find out more!

Empathy and Compassion

People with savior syndrome often possess a deep sense of empathy and compassion. 

They genuinely care about the well-being of others and have an innate desire to alleviate their pain or suffering.

couple sad
Photo:Pixabay

Need for Validation and Self-Worth

Saving or helping others can provide individuals with a sense of purpose and validation. 

By rescuing others, they may feel valued, needed, and important, which can boost their self-esteem and reinforce their identity.

Personal Experiences and Trauma

Some individuals with savior syndrome have had personal experiences of hardship or trauma. 

These experiences may drive them to protect and support others in similar situations, as they can relate to the pain and challenges faced by others.

Desire for Control

Savior syndrome can also be fueled by a need for control. 

By assuming the role of a savior, individuals may believe they have power over others' lives, allowing them to shape outcomes and exert control in uncertain situations.

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


Content
  1. Empathy and Compassion
  2. Need for Validation and Self-Worth
  3. Personal Experiences and Trauma
  4. Desire for Control