A bad partner can ruin your self-esteem: Psychologist's insights

01.10.2023 05:20
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:23

Great partners can make us strong and happy, bad partners can leave us weak, scared of intimacy, and mentally damaged.

While it's often hard to spot a bad partner right away, It's important to keep looking for red flags to keep your self-esteem healthy.

Here are a few things about dating bad partners you should be aware of.

Constant Criticism

They may always point out your flaws and mistakes, making you feel like you can't do anything right.

Name-Calling

They might call you hurtful names, which can make you believe those negative things about yourself.

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Ignoring Your Feelings

If they don't listen to your feelings or dismiss them, you may start to think your emotions aren't important.

Control and Manipulation

They might try to control what you do or who you see, making you feel like you're not capable of making your own decisions.

Comparisons

They may compare you unfavorably to others, making you feel inadequate or less valuable.

Isolation

They could isolate you from friends and family, making you feel like you have no support or worth outside of the relationship.

Blaming

Even when they're at fault, they may blame you for everything, which can make you feel like you're always wrong.

Conclusion

Experiencing all these things for a long time can ruin your self-esteem, and it might take years or therapy to heal these wounds.

Therefore, be careful with who you date!
 

Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource

Content
  1. Constant Criticism
  2. Name-Calling
  3. Ignoring Your Feelings
  4. Control and Manipulation
  5. Comparisons
  6. Isolation
  7. Blaming
  8. Conclusion