How to understand whether people are concerned or jealous: It's harder than you might think

Although we often assume that our friends are relatives, they only want the best for us, this is not always the case.

Sometimes when someone is jealous, they mask it to look worried.

Here are some tips on how to understand their true feelings.

Context

Concern often arises in situations where someone genuinely cares about your well-being or wants to offer support. 

Jealousy, on the other hand, tends to surface when someone feels threatened or envious of your achievements or possessions.

Communication

Genuine concern is usually accompanied by empathy, understanding, and a desire to help. 

Jealousy, on the other hand, may be accompanied by passive-aggressive comments, sarcasm, or attempts to undermine your achievements.

Empathy and Support

Concerned individuals will often express empathy and offer encouragement to help you overcome difficulties. 

Jealous individuals, on the other hand, may downplay your accomplishments, show little interest in your struggles, or display negative reactions to your achievements.

Personal History and Patterns

If they have consistently demonstrated genuine concern for your well-being and have been supportive in the past, it is more likely that their current behavior stems from concern. 

Body Language and Non-Verbal Cues

Concerned individuals may display open and relaxed body language, maintain eye contact, and exhibit genuine expressions of care and support. 
 

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• 18 June 2023

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