Why our preferences change when we become older: The image of a perfect partner can change a lot

17.06.2023 20:50
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:25

When we are young, we often want to date attractive people, and that's basically everything we want our partners to be.

Meanwhile, when people become more mature, their preferences often change - they not only value character more, but even their tastes change.

Let's find out, why.

Maturity and life experience

As people grow older, their priorities may shift towards finding a partner who aligns with their values, life goals, and shared interests. 

Changing life goals

As people grow older, they may place greater importance on finding a partner with whom they can build a stable and fulfilling life, establish a family, or navigate life's challenges together.

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Shift in physical preferences

Factors such as personality, intelligence, and emotional compatibility may become more significant in determining attraction.

Emotional and psychological compatibility

As people mature, they often seek partners with whom they share emotional and psychological compatibility. 

Older individuals may desire partners who can navigate life's ups and downs together and provide emotional stability and companionship.

Stability and security

Older individuals may prioritize partners who are reliable, responsible, and can provide a stable foundation for a long-term relationship.

Lessons from past relationships

As individuals gain more relationship experience, they may have a clearer understanding of what works for them and what doesn't. 
 

Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource

Content
  1. Maturity and life experience
  2. Changing life goals
  3. Shift in physical preferences
  4. Emotional and psychological compatibility
  5. Stability and security
  6. Lessons from past relationships