How to help your domestic cats to become friends: It takes time

17.08.2023 18:30
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:24

Cats often have strong personalities, and you can't force them like someone, including other cats.

Helping domestic cats become friends can be a gradual process that requires patience, understanding, and a strategic approach. 

Here are some steps you can take to facilitate the process of introducing and bonding between domestic cats.

Separate Introduction

If you're introducing a new cat to a resident cat, start by keeping them in separate rooms. 

This allows them to get used to each other's scents and sounds without direct contact, reducing initial stress.

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Scent Exchange

Gradually swap bedding, toys, and other items between the cats' living spaces. 

This helps them become accustomed to each other's scents and makes the eventual meeting less intimidating.

Controlled Encounters

Gradually progress to controlled face-to-face encounters. 

Use a leash and harness on one or both cats to maintain control. 

Allow them to sniff and observe each other from a safe distance. 

Reward calm behavior with treats and praise.

Positive Reinforcement

Reward both cats with treats, praise, and petting whenever they exhibit calm and non-threatening behavior around each other. 

This reinforces positive interactions.

Equal Attention

Give both cats equal attention and affection to avoid jealousy and rivalry. 

This also helps prevent one cat from feeling threatened or overshadowed.

Safe Spaces

Ensure each cat has its own designated safe space where it can retreat to when feeling stressed or overwhelmed. 

This could be a separate room or a high perch where they can observe without feeling threatened.
 

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


Content
  1. Separate Introduction
  2. Scent Exchange
  3. Controlled Encounters
  4. Positive Reinforcement
  5. Equal Attention
  6. Safe Spaces