When we're kids, it's pretty easy to make friends - in most cases, we just need a few activities or hobbies to share.
Meanwhile, when you're older, finding a friend, a partner, or a soulmate, can be extremely hard - but why?
Psychologists can explain why it happens to most people.
Lifestyle Differences
When you're older, you often have more established routines and responsibilities, like work, family, and social circles.
This can make it harder to meet new people outside your usual circles.
Expectations and Baggage
With age, people tend to have more life experiences, both good and bad.
This can lead to having certain expectations or carrying emotional baggage from past relationships, making it trickier to connect with someone new.
Narrower Dating Pool
As you age, the pool of available singles can become smaller, especially if you're looking for someone in a specific age range or with certain qualities.
Less Time
Older adults often have less free time due to career, family, or other commitments.
This can limit the time and energy available for dating and building new relationships.
Fear of Rejection
Some older adults may be more cautious or hesitant about dating due to past experiences or fear of rejection.
Conclusion
In most cases, your standards grow with you - so you can't simply accept everyone who shows some interest in you.
Therefore, you can be pretty selective, and it's not always a bad thing - at least, you can protect yourself from disappointment.
