Making yourself your own priority: Psychologist's tips

24.11.2023 14:50
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:22

We are often taught that we should live for others - to help them, take care of them, and love them more than we love ourselves.

But modern people think differently - so now it's better to help yourself first before you can help others.

There are some tips on how to make yourself your own priority.

Establishing Boundaries

Learn to set clear boundaries. Recognize your limits and be comfortable saying no when needed. 

Prioritizing your own needs doesn't mean neglecting others, but it ensures a healthy balance.

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Mindful Body Awareness

Cultivate mindfulness regarding your body's signals. If you feel tired, allow yourself to rest. If you're hungry, nourish your body. 

Tuning into your physical needs is fundamental to self-care.

Reflection and Celebration

Regularly reflect on your achievements, both big and small. Celebrate milestones and accomplishments. 

This positive reinforcement boosts self-esteem and motivates continued progress.

Positive Self-Talk and Affirmations

Develop a habit of positive self-talk. Replace self-critical thoughts with affirmations that acknowledge your strengths and capabilities. 

Building a positive internal dialogue contributes to improved mental well-being.

Strategic Goal Setting

Break down larger goals into manageable steps. Create a realistic plan for achieving your objectives. 

This strategic approach allows you to make steady progress without feeling overwhelmed.

Cultivating Supportive Relationships

Surround yourself with people who inspire and support you. 

Foster relationships with individuals who uplift your spirits and encourage personal growth. 

Positive social connections contribute significantly to overall well-being.

Delegating Responsibilities

Recognize when it's appropriate to delegate tasks. 

Whether at work or home, distributing responsibilities among a team or seeking help when needed prevents burnout and allows you to focus on priorities.
 

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


Content
  1. Establishing Boundaries
  2. Mindful Body Awareness
  3. Reflection and Celebration
  4. Positive Self-Talk and Affirmations
  5. Strategic Goal Setting
  6. Cultivating Supportive Relationships
  7. Delegating Responsibilities