Manipulation is a method of behavior that allows, by covertly influencing a person, to achieve the goals of the manipulator.
How does a manipulator behave
The manipulator looks for the victim’s weaknesses and exerts a strong emotional impact, which makes it difficult to critically evaluate the situation.
Most often, the manipulator makes the victim feel guilty, which prompts her to take action: she tries to atone for the guilt and carries out the “order.” Violent character.
What is the goal of the manipulator
If a person specifically wants to mislead someone and influence their perception, emotions and behavior, then this person is a manipulator.
The main goals of manipulators are to gain influence over another person or a certain situation, as well as to avoid personal responsibility for their actions or, conversely, inaction.
What kind of people can be manipulated
People who are insecure, suspicious, anxious, and with low self-esteem are especially susceptible to manipulation.
Who is not subject to manipulation: Self-confident people with high self-esteem, able to adequately assess the situation and identify the manipulator.
People who have their own opinions and are able to go against society.
Is it possible to beat a manipulator
You can “outplay” a manipulator only by refusing to act by his rules and saying directly that you are not satisfied with this attitude.
What you don't want, for example, to listen to backhanded compliments or help out of guilt.
