Why people have low self-esteem: Things that influence our sense of self-importance

07.06.2023 14:50
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:25

Some people can be talented, attractive, smart and funny, but with such low self-esteem that it's almost impossible to understand why.

Most of these people have experienced neglect or bullying in the past, and those experiences still affect them.

Here are some reasons for low self-esteem.

Childhood experiences

Negative experiences during childhood, such as emotional or physical abuse, neglect, constant criticism, or bullying, can significantly impact a person's self-esteem. 

Negative self-perception

Individuals who have a negative self-image or consistently focus on their perceived flaws and shortcomings are more likely to have low self-esteem. 

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Critical internal dialogue

Persistent negative self-talk, self-criticism, and self-blame can erode self-esteem over time. 

Harsh self-judgment and the constant belief of not being "good enough" can contribute to low self-esteem.

Past failures or setbacks

When individuals perceive negative experiences as personal shortcomings rather than normal life challenges, it can negatively affect their self-worth and confidence.

Lack of validation and support

Growing up in an environment where one's achievements, feelings, and needs are consistently invalidated or ignored can contribute to low self-esteem. 

Lack of support and positive reinforcement from significant others, such as parents, caregivers, or partners, can make individuals doubt their worth and capabilities.
 

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


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  1. Childhood experiences
  2. Negative self-perception
  3. Critical internal dialogue
  4. Past failures or setbacks
  5. Lack of validation and support