While some people remember their high school years as bright, fun, and carefree, others don't like to talk or even think about those times.
School can be a place where we can make new friends and gain useful knowledge and social skills, or a place where we feel uncomfortable and insecure.
Here are some reasons for this.
Bullying and social challenges
Being a target of bullying, feeling isolated or excluded, or experiencing conflicts with peers can create negative memories and emotional distress that persist long after school years.
Academic struggles
Difficulty in academic performance, such as struggling with certain subjects or feeling overwhelmed by the workload, can lead to feelings of frustration, anxiety, or low self-esteem.
Lack of support
Insufficient guidance, lack of understanding, or inadequate resources to address specific needs or difficulties can contribute to negative memories and a sense of being let down by the educational system.
Unpleasant or traumatic events
School days can be marred by traumatic incidents, such as physical or verbal abuse, accidents, or other traumatic experiences.
Negative teacher-student dynamics
Negative interactions with teachers, such as harsh criticism, unfair treatment, or a lack of support, can greatly impact a person's perception of their school experience.
