Psychologist's insights: The hidden signs of sympathy

08.01.2024 13:40
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:21

People can sometimes hide their sympathy for many reasons – they are afraid to look too clingy, they feel shy, or simply not sure whether their sympathy is appropriate.

While some people can hide their true feelings really well, others can show some unobvious signs whether they want it or not.

Here are a few signs of sympathy that you might notice when someone secretly likes you.

Facial expressions

People who sympathize often have kind and understanding expressions on their faces. 

They may have a gentle smile or show concern through their eyes.

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Body language

Sympathetic individuals may lean in slightly towards you, showing that they are engaged and attentive. 

They may also nod or tilt their head to show that they are listening and understanding.

Active listening

When someone sympathizes, they often listen attentively without interrupting. 

They may maintain eye contact and respond with thoughtful comments or questions to show they understand your feelings.

Empathy in their words

Sympathetic individuals may choose their words carefully and use phrases like, "I understand" or "I'm here for you." 

They may also offer words of comfort or encouragement.

Non-judgmental attitude

People who sympathize tend to be non-judgmental and accepting of your emotions. 

They create a safe space for you to express yourself without feeling criticized or invalidated.

Offering support

Sympathetic individuals may offer practical help or emotional support. 

They may ask if there's anything they can do to assist you or offer a listening ear whenever you need to talk.

Remembering details

If someone remembers details about your situation or asks about your well-being after a difficult time, it shows that they genuinely care and are invested in your feelings.

Previously, we talked about online psychotherapy.

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


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  1. Facial expressions
  2. Body language
  3. Active listening
  4. Empathy in their words
  5. Non-judgmental attitude
  6. Offering support
  7. Remembering details