Psychologist's insights: Self-hatred – definition and roots

04.01.2024 07:40
Updated: 13.05.2024 21:21

Most people claim that you should always love yourself no matter what, but for some people, it's generally not that easy to do.

For example, self-hatred can be a real problem that affects your worldview, decisions, and how you take care of yourself.

Here are a few reasons why people might feel that way.

Negative self-talk

People with self-hatred often have a constant stream of negative thoughts about themselves. 

They may criticize themselves, call themselves names, or focus on their perceived flaws.

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Low self-esteem

Individuals experiencing self-hatred often have very low self-esteem. 

They may feel unworthy, unlovable, or believe they are not good enough in various aspects of life.

Self-sabotage

Self-hatred can lead to self-destructive behaviors. 

People may intentionally sabotage their own success, relationships, or well-being because they believe they don't deserve happiness or success.

Perfectionism

Some individuals with self-hatred set impossibly high standards for themselves and become perfectionists. 

They constantly strive for perfection but feel like failures even when they achieve something.

Avoidance and isolation

People with self-hatred may avoid social situations or isolate themselves from others. 

They may believe they are not worthy of friendship or fear being rejected or judged.

Body image issues

Self-hatred can manifest in negative body image. 

Individuals may excessively criticize their appearance, compare themselves to others, or develop unhealthy behaviors related to food and exercise.

Emotional distress

Self-hatred often leads to emotional pain and distress. 

Individuals may experience sadness, anger, guilt, or shame directed towards themselves.

Previously, we talked about falling out of love.

Kate Yakimchuk Author: Kate Yakimchuk Editor internet resource


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  1. Negative self-talk
  2. Low self-esteem
  3. Self-sabotage
  4. Perfectionism
  5. Avoidance and isolation
  6. Body image issues
  7. Emotional distress