We often see bullies - either in movies or in real life.
While everyone with a bit of empathy doesn't want to hurt or offend other people, it doesn't seem that bullies work like that.
But why?
Power and control
Bullies often seek power and control over others as a way to boost their own self-esteem and assert dominance.
Offending others allows them to feel a sense of power and superiority, exerting control over their victims.
Insecurity and low self-esteem
In some cases, bullies may have deep-rooted insecurities and low self-esteem.
By putting others down or offending them, they attempt to deflect attention away from their own vulnerabilities and shortcomings, temporarily boosting their own self-worth.
Lack of empathy and understanding
Bullies may have difficulty empathizing with others and understanding the impact of their actions.
They may not fully comprehend or appreciate the emotional or psychological harm they cause through offensive behavior.
Seeking attention and validation
Bullies may engage in offensive behavior as a means to gain attention and validation from peers or others around them.
They may believe that their actions make them more popular or increase their social status, even if it comes at the expense of others.
Learned behavior
Some individuals may have learned that behavior from their environment, such as witnessing aggression or experiencing it themselves.
If they have not been taught appropriate ways to interact with others, they may resort to offensive behavior as a learned coping mechanism.
